"When our Lord sees our courage in walking on the path he wills for us, he will fill our hearts with joy." - St. Jane de Chantal A Gift to Us All by Ruth Gates Brightbill Mother of Maddie '15, Grace '17, and Charlotte '19 Georgetown Visitation Parents' Association Co-President, 2016-17
Here is a universal truth: high school is not always easy. We have all seen it with our daughters – struggling in a particular class, staying up way too late to study, working through friend issues – the list is long. But our girls do this willingly, and – most of the time – even joyfully. I think part of the reason they do so is because of the important role the Sisters of the Visitation play in showing them what it means to courageously walk the path that God wills.
As a non-Catholic family, we had our first close contact with nuns at Visitation. I had no idea what to expect. In fact, I was intimidated by the Sisters at first – their Biblical knowledge, their quiet presence, and their lives so different from ours. Little by little, as time allowed, I came to know the Sisters better – first through Sister Jacqueline, who was Maddie's homeroom teacher and called us at home to offer comfort when a friend passed away. Then through Sister Mary Berchmans and Sister Loretta, who generously host the monthly Salesian Friends spirituality group. Then through Sister Mada-anne, who serves as our GVPA representative from the Monastery with thoughtful updates and anecdotes. And Sister Sylvie Marie and Sister Mary Alicia, who have sat with me in the Chapel, praying through sadness and joys.
What I have come to know is that the Sisters of the Visitation have courage that is unparalleled. Choosing to dedicate your life to God is a most courageous act. These women truly and joyously walk the path God wills for them, and spread God's love to those around them. Through the Sisters, I have learned about the "Little Virtues" of Salesian faith and everyday wisdom from St. Jane de Chantal like "be gentle and patient with yourself," "interpret everything positively," and – a personal favorite – "God did not make us angels, we must put up with our human nature." These appeal to my pragmatic side, and set me on a positive path when I pause to remember them. I also am reminded that even if the challenges and roles that God has set for me seem difficult, I can face them with courage like the Sisters.
The Sisters are a gift to us all, regardless of faith background. If you haven't already, I strongly suggest getting to know the Sisters and joining one of the monthly Salesian Spirituality groups. Their courage is inspirational and gives us – and our daughters – great joy.
Direction of Intention (St. Francis de Sales) Oh my God, I give you this day. I offer you now all of the good which I shall do. I promise to accept for love of you all of the difficulty which I shall meet. Help me to conduct myself during this day in a manner most pleasing to you.
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